Tuesday, 30 June 2020

TWIN SISTERS RAPED BY THIER MUM'S SALES BOY.

Evil everywhere! Sales boy defiles his emoloyer's twin daughters inside their mother's shop.

He was employed as a sales boy in a restaurant but rather than concentrating his energy on serving customers a whole year,he was busy defiling the twin daughters of his employer right inside the canteen.

Nemesis however caught up with the 26 years old boy in Lagos.Chinedu obi who for the past 12 months has taken turns to defile the 11year old twin daughters of his employer.

His atrocity was exposed when his madam who had gone to ijesha market in surulere area of the state came back to the restaurant early and met him with one of the twins.She raised the alarm and invited the police who moved in and arrested the suspect.

The state police command spokesman,DSP BALA ELKANA who confirmed the incident said that the suspect was arrested on June 16,2020 as soon as the mother alerted the police.

The mother of the victims(Names withheld)who owns a restaurant in surulere told the police that the suspect who is her sales boy defiled her daughters repeatedly. She said she got to know about it when she returned from the market and overheard the twins fighting over sharing formular of 200naira given to them by the suspect.The twins confessed to her after much pressure.She told the police that the suspect was treated as a part of the family because of the closeness to her children.

The suspect is a native of umuaka in IMO state,Chinedu blamed the devil for his act.According to him,sometime in june 2018,he relocated to Lagos for a greener pasture. Luckily I met one calabar woman who own a restaurant at sologun street in surulere. She employed me as a sales and the agreement was that she would pay me 400naira everyday and feed me.I used to resume around 6am everyday and close for the dayby 8pm.My whole life was dedicated to the job and because of that I have no opportunity to talk to a woman.I am a man that has been sex starved.So sometime in June last year I decided to try name luckwiyh my madam's daughters.She has twin and they are girls.

They use to come around and stay in the shop,both after school and during the covid-19 period.I was so close to the family that they barely suspect anything going on.One day they came straight to the shop after school and one of the twin removed her cloth in front of me and this was when the whole thing started.Just because I have been sex starved so I decided to try my luck on one of the twin and she accepted without obliging just because I told her I will always give her 200naira anytime she allows me to have sex with her.So we quickly did it begin the counter, I cleaned her and gave her 200naira.I was shocked when the came to pull her up her dress and told me to do the same thing with her because she also wants her own.I had no choice but to do it.So I started dividing the money for them.

The twin started bleeding and i and I did not understand want was happening to them,thought was because of the sex and I asked them to use tissue of paper to clean the blood. My mother only gave birth to boys so I did not understand that they have started monthly flow.
Because their mother doesn't give them money so they are always coming to me.

Chinedu said the twin were taking turns to watch out for any person coming.They were not caught because they were working together.I normally do it when their mother has gone to oyingbo market or later in the evening when customers no longer come.

Chinedu plea for mercy by promising to stay away from the twins if set free.

My madam has agreed to forgive me but the police insist I will be charged to court.After spending days in the police station I now understand that what I did was bad.

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Thursday, 25 June 2020

WHY DO MARRIED WOMEN CHEAT?.

There are many reasons why married women cheat.

Most married women don't think infidelity will happen to them. But the truth is that even the happiest marriages can be rocked by cheating.

Cheating in married women can be because of personality disorders and childhood issues.
Frustration in marriage is one trigger that can lead to cheating.


CAUSES OF CHEATING IN MARRIED WOMEN

Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction:-When there is no joy in the home and mutual nurturing, couples may grow apart.

Feeling Unappreciated:-Feeling neglected or undervalued can lead to infidelity.

Lack of commitment:-When you are not committed to your relationship it is more likely to cheat.

Boredom:-When there is no excitement.

Psychological issues:-Is just a problem among some women,they can't do without cheating.

Sex Addiction:-Some women love sex and can't stay without having sex a day.

Financial pressure:-Some do it because of money.Just becoaue their spouse can't meet up to their needs or they want to be among the high and mighty.

Lack of respect:-Some women don't respect their husband just because he can't provide for the family and they do whatever it takes to provide for the family.

Domestic violence/Emotional abuse:-Women cheats because of abuse from their spouse either verbally or aggressive.

Low compatibility:-People who marry because of the wrong reasons.

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WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE

We fall in love with people who are attracted to us.Falling in love takes time and it doesn't happen overnight,it also happens for a reason.

Falling and being in love with someone makes us feel warm.
Key factor of falling in love is compatibility (sexual attraction, physical chemistry and shared interest).Compatibility does not refer to physical attraction, it is the way in which two people communicate,understand and relate to each other.
Actually falling in love doesn't come at first sight,it happens gradually.

True love is  about commitment,being there through sickness and in health.Love takes nurturing and time to grow and evolve.

Why fall in love?
(1)Because of social influence.
(2)Meeting of needs (companionship,love ,sex or mating).
(3)Readiness in terms of low self esteem.
(4)Isolation:-spending time alone together can develop passion.
SIGNS TO SHOW YOU ARE IN LOVE
(1)You can't stop staring at them.

(2)You feel like you are high(like you are out of your mind).

(3)Always thinking about them.

(4)You want them to be happy.

(5)Your heart skips when you think see them.

(6)Getting sweater or neusea.

(7)You feel relaxed and comfortable around them.

(8)You find it hard to ask them for things(cash).

Falling in love might be painful but if you've noticed it doesn't bother you much more.It could be a big sign you are in love.

Reference:-
Aron and Aron.
Acevedo,B.P.
Kristin Salaky.

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Friday, 12 June 2020

WHY DO YOUNG MEN FIND OLDER WOMEN SEXY?.

When young men were asked why they date older women,their response was older women can offer honesty,emotional stability and they have more experience in life.
They went ahead to say older women made great partners,including the fact that they are self-assured.The attention of older women boosted their own level of confidence and  self-esteem.

They prefer to date/marry older women because there is sense of rational equality.

MORE REASONS WHY YOUNG MEN PREFER OLDER WOMEN:-

Loving her experience:-Older women have life experience, they have been in the game for a long time. They know things the  younger girls can only dream of!.

They can learn a lot:-The older you are,the more experience you have.That's why younger men are so attracted to older women especially the men that are ambitious.The men believe they will mature more quickly if they have someone to learn from.

He respects you for all that you have achieved:-You didn't become a successful woman out of nowhere.It's taken hard work.determination and persistence."young men nowadays probably also recognize that older women are adapt at so many responsibilities(career,children,fitness and finances).

They believe older women are emotionally mature:-Older women learn how to control her emotions.She is been through ups and downs in life. They also believe you don't play games.

They can have intellectual discussions:-They can offer more wisdom to a conversation. Discussion about what your goal are in life.A lot of young men are sick of the superficial discussion that comes with dating someone their age.An older woman helps them understand more about almost any topic.
French president Emmanuel Macron is  married to a woman 24years older than him.

Older women are financially stable:-Young men feels they need to to be financially secured. The last thing they need is a younger girl mooching off him at every opportunity she gets.

They dont have to worry about having children:-The great thing about older women is that they have either decided they don't want children or they have grown ups.

They are good at cooking:-They cook for themselves or for the family.They know what tastes good and what nutritional need a young man has.

    Young men prefer older women not just because of money,but for every other thing that makes them comfortable.

Source
©Today.com

Reference
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Thursday, 11 June 2020

TYPES OF CHILDREN'S BOOK AND HOW TO MAKE READING FUN AND EXICITING FOR THEM.

When we talk about books we talk about excitement and impacts it does in the lives of our kids.

Let's look at picture books.
Picture books are commonly used to describe a book,most often written for children, in which the content is conveyed through use of words.

Types of picture books

Board books:
Are meant for youngest readers. They have cardboard pages.It's recommended for birth-2years.
Examples are:-Yummy yucky by Leslie Particelli.
Barnyard Dance by Sandra Boynton.
What is on my head by Margaret Miller.
Concept books:-
It introduce children to a theme such as alphabet, counting, colours or shapes.
Recommended for ages 2-8years.
Examples are:-Freight train by Donald Crews.
Feast for ten by Cathryn Falwell.
Planting a rainbow by Lois Ehlert.

Easy Readers:-
Known as early readers,limited vocabularies are structured and they are easy to read. It's recommended for 4-7years.
Examples are:-The cat in the hat by Dr.Seuss.
Frog and toad are friends by Arnold Lobel.
There is a bird on the head by Mo Williams.
Non Fiction Books:-
This introduce children to new subjects in a simple way.Its recommended for ages 8-10years.
Example is:-Wangari Trees of peace by Jeanette Winter.
Wordless Picture Books:-
These type of books,the stories are told completely by pictures.Is for ages 2-10years.
Examples are:-The snowman by Raymond Briggs.
Flotsam by David Wiesner.
Do you want to be my friend by Eric Carle.

HOW DO PICTURE BOOKS HELP A CHILD READ.
When you read with a child it creates a bond.Research shows that children should be involved in the process of reading a book.Allow the child to talk about things in the book by asking questions and helping to describe want they see.

These are some ways to help them better
*Vocabulary:-Knowing the names of things.
*Narrative Skills:-The ability to tell their own stories.
*Letter Identification:-Knowing difference between the letters by their shapes and sounds.

      A child is more likely to become a reader if he reads books that address his passions and concerns.As children begin to read in their own,they get more excited.

These are quick ways to help your children reading level.

√ Pick a page and have the child read through.

√ Have the child hold out a finger to point every word when reading.

√Make sure the child can understand what she reads.

Resources
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Friday, 5 June 2020

LETTER FROM ME TO PARENTS.

Dear parent(s)/Guardian(s)

Welcome to my blog.My name is Amaka.H.I have been teaching for the past 12years.I look forward to helping your children excel and reach their potentials.

My goal as an educator is to guide your child toward academic success and to help build critical thinking skills that will help him/her blossom into adulthood.I will do my part to inform you when your child isn't Working to his/her potential.Feel free to contact me through my e-mail address....ammytouch86@gmail.com.

Now let's look at ways we can help your child/ward grow academically in this lockdown without them being affected when classes resumes fully.

*Get them engage in online teaching.
*Get them story books to help in their vocabularies.
*Allow them to ask you questions they find difficult doing.
*Ask your children questions.
*Get them materials and puzzles.
*Let them watch educative movies.

Finally always talk to your children/ward teachers on any work you find difficult doing.Learning is fun when you help your child's teacher with the following

Effective communication.
Follow up on your child.
Coming to school on conference day to check their work.
Ask your child what he or she learnt from school each day they come back from school.

Learning is easy when we make it fun and exciting.

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