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THE MAN WHO RAPED A 3MONTHS OLD BABY.

The victim.

A baby has been defiled in Adogi village of Nassarawa state.

The baby's vagina after being defiled.

The victim is currently receiving surgical treatment at jos teaching hospital (JUTH)as a result of the incident.

The mother of the victim told correspondent in jos that the incident occurred in the midnight of may 27th(children's day).I woke up early and found out the baby was missing and also was my phone, because I kept the baby and my phone beside me.I searched everywhere and didn't find my daughter.

Mother and child at the teaching hospital.

So I raised an alarm and people trooped in to my compound and told them what happened and they went out to search for my daughter and found her in an uncompleted building. She was bleeding everywhere and she was rushed to the hospital.

This is really a wicked world.An innocent baby of 3months raped this way.

Ammysbigstories.

2020©.

TWIN SISTERS RAPED BY THIER MUM'S SALES BOY.

Evil everywhere! Sales boy defiles his emoloyer's twin daughters inside their mother's shop.

He was employed as a sales boy in a restaurant but rather than concentrating his energy on serving customers a whole year,he was busy defiling the twin daughters of his employer right inside the canteen.

Nemesis however caught up with the 26 years old boy in Lagos.Chinedu obi who for the past 12 months has taken turns to defile the 11year old twin daughters of his employer.

His atrocity was exposed when his madam who had gone to ijesha market in surulere area of the state came back to the restaurant early and met him with one of the twins.She raised the alarm and invited the police who moved in and arrested the suspect.

The state police command spokesman,DSP BALA ELKANA who confirmed the incident said that the suspect was arrested on June 16,2020 as soon as the mother alerted the police.

The mother of the victims(Names withheld)who owns a restaurant in surulere told the police that the suspect who is her sales boy defiled her daughters repeatedly. She said she got to know about it when she returned from the market and overheard the twins fighting over sharing formular of 200naira given to them by the suspect.The twins confessed to her after much pressure.She told the police that the suspect was treated as a part of the family because of the closeness to her children.

The suspect is a native of umuaka in IMO state,Chinedu blamed the devil for his act.According to him,sometime in june 2018,he relocated to Lagos for a greener pasture. Luckily I met one calabar woman who own a restaurant at sologun street in surulere. She employed me as a sales and the agreement was that she would pay me 400naira everyday and feed me.I used to resume around 6am everyday and close for the dayby 8pm.My whole life was dedicated to the job and because of that I have no opportunity to talk to a woman.I am a man that has been sex starved.So sometime in June last year I decided to try name luckwiyh my madam's daughters.She has twin and they are girls.

They use to come around and stay in the shop,both after school and during the covid-19 period.I was so close to the family that they barely suspect anything going on.One day they came straight to the shop after school and one of the twin removed her cloth in front of me and this was when the whole thing started.Just because I have been sex starved so I decided to try my luck on one of the twin and she accepted without obliging just because I told her I will always give her 200naira anytime she allows me to have sex with her.So we quickly did it begin the counter, I cleaned her and gave her 200naira.I was shocked when the came to pull her up her dress and told me to do the same thing with her because she also wants her own.I had no choice but to do it.So I started dividing the money for them.

The twin started bleeding and i and I did not understand want was happening to them,thought was because of the sex and I asked them to use tissue of paper to clean the blood. My mother only gave birth to boys so I did not understand that they have started monthly flow.

Because their mother doesn't give them money so they are always coming to me.

Chinedu said the twin were taking turns to watch out for any person coming.They were not caught because they were working together.I normally do it when their mother has gone to oyingbo market or later in the evening when customers no longer come.

Chinedu plea for mercy by promising to stay away from the twins if set free.

My madam has agreed to forgive me but the police insist I will be charged to court.After spending days in the police station I now understand that what I did was bad.

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  2020.

WHY DO MARRIED WOMEN CHEAT?.

There are many reasons why married women cheat.

Most married women don't think infidelity will happen to them. But the truth is that even the happiest marriages can be rocked by cheating.

Cheating in married women can be because of personality disorders and childhood issues.

Frustration in marriage is one trigger that can lead to cheating.

CAUSES OF CHEATING IN MARRIED WOMEN

Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction:-When there is no joy in the home and mutual nurturing, couples may grow apart.

Feeling Unappreciated:-Feeling neglected or undervalued can lead to infidelity.

Lack of commitment:-When you are not committed to your relationship it is more likely to cheat.

Boredom:-When there is no excitement.

Psychological issues:-Is just a problem among some women,they can't do without cheating.

Sex Addiction:-Some women love sex and can't stay without having sex a day.

Financial pressure:-Some do it because of money.Just becoaue their spouse can't meet up to their needs or they want to be among the high and mighty.

Lack of respect:-Some women don't respect their husband just because he can't provide for the family and they do whatever it takes to provide for the family.

Domestic violence/Emotional abuse:-Women cheats because of abuse from their spouse either verbally or aggressive.

Low compatibility:-People who marry because of the wrong reasons.

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 2020.

WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE

We fall in love with people who are attracted to us.Falling in love takes time and it doesn't happen overnight,it also happens for a reason.

Falling and being in love with someone makes us feel warm.

Key factor of falling in love is compatibility (sexual attraction, physical chemistry and shared interest).Compatibility does not refer to physical attraction, it is the way in which two people communicate,understand and relate to each other.

Actually falling in love doesn't come at first sight,it happens gradually.

True love is  about commitment,being there through sickness and in health.Love takes nurturing and time to grow and evolve.

Why fall in love?

(1)Because of social influence.

(2)Meeting of needs (companionship,love ,sex or mating).

(3)Readiness in terms of low self esteem.

(4)Isolation:-spending time alone together can develop passion.

SIGNS TO SHOW YOU ARE IN LOVE

(1)You can't stop staring at them.

(2)You feel like you are high(like you are out of your mind).

(3)Always thinking about them.

(4)You want them to be happy.

(5)Your heart skips when you think see them.

(6)Getting sweater or neusea.

(7)You feel relaxed and comfortable around them.

(8)You find it hard to ask them for things(cash).

Falling in love might be painful but if you've noticed it doesn't bother you much more.It could be a big sign you are in love.

Reference:-

Aron and Aron.

Acevedo,B.P.

Kristin Salaky.

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   2020.

WHY DO YOUNG MEN FIND OLDER WOMEN SEXY?.

When young men were asked why they date older women,their response was older women can offer honesty,emotional stability and they have more experience in life.

They went ahead to say older women made great partners,including the fact that they are self-assured.The attention of older women boosted their own level of confidence and  self-esteem.

They prefer to date/marry older women because there is sense of rational equality.

MORE REASONS WHY YOUNG MEN PREFER OLDER WOMEN:-

Loving her experience:-Older women have life experience, they have been in the game for a long time. They know things the  younger girls can only dream of!.

They can learn a lot:-The older you are,the more experience you have.That's why younger men are so attracted to older women especially the men that are ambitious.The men believe they will mature more quickly if they have someone to learn from.

He respects you for all that you have achieved:-You didn't become a successful woman out of nowhere.It's taken hard work.determination and persistence."young men nowadays probably also recognize that older women are adapt at so many responsibilities(career,children,fitness and finances).

They believe older women are emotionally mature:-Older women learn how to control her emotions.She is been through ups and downs in life. They also believe you don't play games.

They can have intellectual discussions:-They can offer more wisdom to a conversation. Discussion about what your goal are in life.A lot of young men are sick of the superficial discussion that comes with dating someone their age.An older woman helps them understand more about almost any topic.

French president Emmanuel Macron is  married to a woman 24years older than him.

Older women are financially stable:-Young men feels they need to to be financially secured. The last thing they need is a younger girl mooching off him at every opportunity she gets.

They dont have to worry about having children:-The great thing about older women is that they have either decided they don't want children or they have grown ups.

They are good at cooking:-They cook for themselves or for the family.They know what tastes good and what nutritional need a young man has.

    Young men prefer older women not just because of money,but for every other thing that makes them comfortable.

Source

©Today.com

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TYPES OF CHILDREN'S BOOK AND HOW TO MAKE READING FUN AND EXICITING FOR THEM.

When we talk about books we talk about excitement and impacts it does in the lives of our kids.

Let's look at picture books.

Picture books are commonly used to describe a book,most often written for children, in which the content is conveyed through use of words.

Types of picture books

Board books:

Are meant for youngest readers. They have cardboard pages.It's recommended for birth-2years.

Examples are:-Yummy yucky by Leslie Particelli.

Barnyard Dance by Sandra Boynton.

What is on my head by Margaret Miller.

Concept books:-

It introduce children to a theme such as alphabet, counting, colours or shapes.

Recommended for ages 2-8years.

Examples are:-Freight train by Donald Crews.

Feast for ten by Cathryn Falwell.

Planting a rainbow by Lois Ehlert.

Easy Readers:-

Known as early readers,limited vocabularies are structured and they are easy to read. It's recommended for 4-7years.

Examples are:-The cat in the hat by Dr.Seuss.

Frog and toad are friends by Arnold Lobel.

There is a bird on the head by Mo Williams.

Non Fiction Books:-

This introduce children to new subjects in a simple way.Its recommended for ages 8-10years.

Example is:-Wangari Trees of peace by Jeanette Winter.

Wordless Picture Books:-

These type of books,the stories are told completely by pictures.Is for ages 2-10years.

Examples are:-The snowman by Raymond Briggs.

Flotsam by David Wiesner.

Do you want to be my friend by Eric Carle.

HOW DO PICTURE BOOKS HELP A CHILD READ.

When you read with a child it creates a bond.Research shows that children should be involved in the process of reading a book.Allow the child to talk about things in the book by asking questions and helping to describe want they see.

These are some ways to help them better

*Vocabulary:-Knowing the names of things.

*Narrative Skills:-The ability to tell their own stories.

*Letter Identification:-Knowing difference between the letters by their shapes and sounds.

      A child is more likely to become a reader if he reads books that address his passions and concerns.As children begin to read in their own,they get more excited.

These are quick ways to help your children reading level.

√ Pick a page and have the child read through.

√ Have the child hold out a finger to point every word when reading.

√Make sure the child can understand what she reads.

Resources

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LETTER FROM ME TO PARENTS.

Dear parent(s)/Guardian(s)

Welcome to my blog.My name is Amaka.H.I have been teaching for the past 12years.I look forward to helping your children excel and reach their potentials.

My goal as an educator is to guide your child toward academic success and to help build critical thinking skills that will help him/her blossom into adulthood.I will do my part to inform you when your child isn't Working to his/her potential.Feel free to contact me through my e-mail address....ammytouch86@gmail.com.

Now let's look at ways we can help your child/ward grow academically in this lockdown without them being affected when classes resumes fully.

*Get them engage in online teaching.

*Get them story books to help in their vocabularies.

*Allow them to ask you questions they find difficult doing.

*Ask your children questions.

*Get them materials and puzzles.

*Let them watch educative movies.

Finally always talk to your children/ward teachers on any work you find difficult doing.Learning is fun when you help your child's teacher with the following

Effective communication.

Follow up on your child.

Coming to school on conference day to check their work.

Ask your child what he or she learnt from school each day they come back from school.

Learning is easy when we make it fun and exciting.

#bornteacher#iamamaka#ilovewhatido.

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AN ABUSER

Abusers are those who hurt people and find joy in doing it "ammysbigstories"

ABUSERS are so comfortable making people uncomfortable. They are deceptive, jealous,over protective and manipulating.

TYPES OF ABUSERS

EMOTIONAL ABUSERS

They toil with your feelings and never care how you feel or what you are going through. They find every reason to make you feel unhappy and restless. 

PHYSICAL ABUSERS

They hit you with their hands,objects,weapons just to make sure your are disfigured or have an injury.They hit you for just no cause and still make you feel you are the reason they are hitting you.

SEXUAL ABUSERS

This type of people find pleasure in seeing you unhappy while they are happy having sex with you.They are also involved in raping and see no wrong in what they have done.

SIGNS OF ABUSERS(CHARACTERISTICS)

*They are over protective and jealous.

*They don't like sending time wit your family and doesn't want you to do same.

*They don't take responsiblities of their action.

*They don't respect your privacy.

*They have massive mood swing.

*They threaten and punish.

*They call in frequently and drops in unexpectedly.

*They isolate you from family,friends and resources.

*Use of force during sex.

*Cruel to kids.

*Demand sex even if you're asleep,tired,sick or not in the mood.

*Say things to upset or frighten you.

*Swear at you or call you names.

*Orders you around and treat you like a slave/servant.

*Makes big scenes about small issues.

*Threatens you with infidelity or divorce just to throw you off balance.

*Accuses you of lying or having bad memory.

Let's say no to all this and stand to fight for ourselves.

Let's put a STOP and do the right thing. Run away from those that have these signs, they are dangerous and can kill without any trace of them doing it.

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©2020

CHILDREN'S DAY CELEBRATION

Children's day celebration was established in 1954 worldwide.

Children's day celebration is all about celebrating children every may 27th.Is a time parents,teachers and guardians celebrate every child either biological or not.

Children In orphanage homes are not left out of it.

Children are blessings from God and they need to be celebrated every day not just every year.

Children would have been taken out this year to celebrate their day but because of the covid-19 pandemic,they were all home to celebrate their day with parents and loved ones.

God bless our children,God bless our world.

HAPPY CHILDRENS DAY.

    Dedicated to all the children.

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WHY DO MARRIED MEN CHEAT

Men often underestimate the emotional ramifications of their actions.

While women do cheat,the fact remain that men cheat more than women.But they don't seem to do so with the same intentions as women.Cheaters, specifically repeat cheaters tend to be opportunistic and capable of emotional  threats.

WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

Some cheat becos they are not satisfied,but as a rule men don't cheat becos they are unhappy,men cheat becos they think they can get away with it and becos they're willing to let themselves get away with it.Cheating is a strange behaviour that can make it hard to be a good father an husband, but also a behaviour that isn't actually related with love or care.

Men think well I just did this but in every other way I'm retable, responsible, committed, a good guy...bla bla bla....

What they don't understand is that women don't think that way.Men who don't come clean or get caught,repeat offenses are the product of the same mentality."It just sex".

20% of men admit to cheating compared to 13% of women.10% of expecting fathers cheat o their pregnant wives,and their reasons to  believe a man resistance to temptation is stronger when he's newly married and having bunch of sex if the partner interest is  declining.

The good news is that most men don't need to cheat to understand the hurt it may cause yo their partner.

"Weiss.....recalls one man who came to him in a counselling session expressing the urge to cheat with a colleague, and he advised him to treat his marriage as a contract,if he wanted to have sex with another person.He'd need to discuss it with his wife first in order to negotiate terms.When he did,he saw yye pain it would cause her before doing it,rather than retroactively and he ne'er cheated.

A mature person keeps their partner in mind wherever they are so as to avoid cheating..

SOURCE:Laura Vinopal

              Sep.21 2018

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10 Sex Tips for Women That Men Really Want You to Know Like, where they actually want to be touched.

10 Sex Tips for Women That Men Really Want You to Know

Like, where they actually want to be touched.

Freud once called female sexuality "the dark continent," and if that's true, then male sexuality might as well be the dark planet. Because when it comes to sex, men are far from simple. (As much as they may try to convince us otherwise.) The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, so what you see on TV is typically far from what can (and should) be delivered in reality. That's why sex experts chimed in with more accurate insight about what guys really want you to knowwhen the two of you climb into bed. Here are their top sex tips for women.

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1. Men respond to praise.

It's believed that men are so consumed by libido that they have no self-consciousness surrounding sex. But that couldn't be further from the truth. "[There are] plenty of men who feel very self-conscious about their weight, or parts of their body, and really are affected by this in the bedroom," says Laurie Mintz, Ph.D., author of A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex and Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters. Many are impacted by performance anxiety too, asking themselves questions like, "Will I be able to get an erection?," "Have I gained too much weight?" and, "Will I be able to please her?"

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That's when it can be helpful for him to hear compliments both in and out of the bedroom. Mintz suggests starting outside the bedroom, when you can have what she calls a "kitchen table sex talk" — AKA a lower-stakes time to discuss things that are bothering you in the bedroom without having to be "in the moment" of, well, having sex. That's when your partner can talk about what pressures he's feeling, or what he's self-conscious about. Then, you can boost his confidence..

"In a really good, connected, long-term partnership, there's not a magic word that will work wonders; it's more about getting to know what it is your partner is worried about, and addressing that outside of the bedroom, when he's not already anxious about whatever the issue at hand is."

Once you're in the bedroom (and aware of his insecurities), remind him of how much you enjoy being intimate. For example, if he's worried about his weight, maybe give him a sexy once-over and tell him how how buff he looks naked. Other key areas to compliment: His gut, as men often worry about the size of it (and other measurable parts), and their hair, as guys tend to feel self-conscious once they start losing it.

2. Some fear intimacy.

But not for the reason you think! Studies have shown that boys are more affectionate, even more expressive, than girls until they reach school age. At that time, social repression begins — of words, thoughts, feelings — and the desire for human connection goes underground. So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify men; not because it's smothering, but because they realize how desperate they are for it.

So what's a woman to do? First, understand that your guy's hasty retreat post-sex may be because he doesn't understand how much he craves a connection with you. Then, it's time for another kitchen table sex talk, Mintz says. "If he's been jumping in the shower right after sex for the last 10 years, he's going to be really taken off guard if, the next time he goes into the shower, you all of a sudden say it upsets you," she explains. "Instead, set aside a time to talk when the situation has passed."

When you do talk, Mintz suggests using the sandwich technique: Give him a compliment, tell him your problem, then follow it up with another compliment. Example: "I really love having sex with you, and after we have sex I feel really close and connected. I know you really want to shower, but I really want to cuddle. Is there a compromise that will work for both of us?"

It can be as simple as asking to cuddle for five minutes before a shower, or even showering together. Regardless of the solution, talking about it may reveal something you never knew, and allows fore more understanding before coming up with a new norm that'll make all parties happy.

3. They appreciate sex for sex.

While intimacy and post-sex cuddling can be wonderful for many men, sometimes a little "throw-me-down sex" is exactly what they want, plain and simple. "Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally," says Joe Kort, Ph.D, a psychotherapist and sexologist in Royal Oak, Michigan. "It's not [always] about dominating a woman, but rather ravishing her." On occasion, don't be afraid to let him do just that. (So long as it's something you're comfortable with, of course.)

4. Guys want to be touched.

The penis gets all the press, but men have many erogenous zones, just like women, says psychologist Melodie Schaefer, PsyD. They just don't tell you to move your hands elsewhere because they're afraid that if they do, women will shut down and not touch them at all, she explains. "But there are many places a woman should touch, like the chest, inner thighs, and face," Schaefer adds. Another key move: Gently gripping a man's testicles, as it can be a real turn-on that blends control with release. You can also stimulate the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, which heightens pleasure during oral sex.

5. Yes, they have sexual fantasies.

"Men want to share their fantasiesbut worry their wives will shame or judge them," Dr. Kort says. Similarly, Dr. Schaefer notes that men wish women would reveal their own sexual imaginings. The solution: Make a game of it.

First (and most important), promise not to judge the other. Then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. Next time you're feeling hot and heavy, pull one out. Either jump right into fulfilling that fantasy or, if you need a little more time to adjust, ask what it is about that fantasy that your partner likes, Dr. Kort says. "Sometimes, its themes can be addressed in different scenarios that feel comfortable for both of you," he adds.

6. Men want you to be vocal.

Talking during sex stimulates more than our ears, as Mintz says heavy breathing, groaning, and moaning are all sounds that we make when we're feeling free, and studies have shown that it's erotic for all parties involved to hear. It's also a great way to really express what you want, which is a huge turn-on for men when they know they're doing exactly what you need to have an orgasm.

If you're not usually one to speak up, Mintz suggests trying it solo first. "Next time you're masturbating, make some noise," she says. "You might find something is really fun, and then you can transfer that to partner sex." Otherwise, saying anything that's praising, instructive, and even a little dirty tends to go over well with men. Tell him exactly how you want to be touched (and where, and using what) and you'll his pleasure meter — and yours —through the roof.

7. And they want you to be honest.

Sex can help ease many stressors in a relationship, but it can also cause stress. If he complains about a lack of sex (or the fact that you're only doing certain things on his birthday), then be honest about what's causing you to withhold.

One reason that you may not even be aware of is an issue called receptive desire, Mintz says. "As a woman ages and the relationship goes on, [many] stop being spontaneously horny," she explains. "A lot of men and women don't know this, so they wait to be [turned on] to have sex...But you can have sex to get [turned on], rather than wait to be [turned on] to have sex."

If you have a normative lack of desire and don’t know about it, Mintz says these kitchen table sex talks are especially important because they can help both of you realize what issues are really at hand without feeling attacked, hurt, or rejected.

Of course, it's also possible that there’s anger, resentment, or deeper issues going on. If that's the case, Mintz says you shouldn't be using sex as a weapon — that's only going to cause more harm in the relationship — and should instead be honest about how you're feeling. If you're not comfortable bringing it up on your own (or discussing it when your partner does), she suggests seeing a therapist, who can help the two of you navigate the issue in a healthy way.

8. Guys enjoy the dance.

Men like a good quest, so even if you've been together for awhile, allow your partner to court you. "Emotional intimacy is about closeness, but sustaining sexual desire demands a certain amount of distance," Dr. Kort says.

How do couples strike this tricky balance? By allowing each partner to have what he calls "separate sexuality," or a sex life that doesn't include (or betray) the other. "For him, that might mean allowing his wife to use sex toys or letting other men look at her," Dr. Kort says. "For her, it might be permitting him to watch pornography in order to experience a fantasy." Such indulgences help maintain the balance of desire and devotion for both parties, so talk to your partner outside of the bedroom and see if this is something one (or both of you) might be interested in.

9. Speaking of pornography, it isn't always a big deal.

Finding a spouse using pornography is a top reason couples seek counsel, but it shouldn't be overreacted to or pathologized, Dr. Kort says. First of all, sex addicts only represent 3-6% of the population, so it's unlikely your man is one. Plus, because childhood experiences influence sexuality as an adult, people are very idiosyncratic about what turns them on, Dr. Kort says. "So no woman can, nor should be, everything to a man."

Still, it's tough not to take it personally when he's getting off by looking at another woman. To help tamper that, Dr. Kort recommends taking the secrecy out of pornography and discussing it. "Ask him what about it turns him on, and [express without anger] what turns you off," he says. That way, a dialogue is created that allows for honesty, dignity, and closeness without him feeling like he's doing something shameful, while you can figure out what you're OK with accepting and what you're not.

10. Men want you to embrace sex.

Guys are often accused of being sexually insatiable, but women should rethink this line of thought. "Men see sex as a celebration," Dr. Schaefer says. "They wish women would take more of a 'carpe diem' approach to it."

We all move through life at the speed of sound, with multiple challenges and pressures. That makes it easy to allow demands on our time and energy to rob us of the joy, pleasure, and opportunity that sex affords us. And more often than not, sex ends up being at the bottom of a long list of priorities. But viewing sex through a different lens — something you wantto do versus have to do — can make all the difference.

Plus, there are health benefits to sex. Orgasms release oxytocin, for example, a hormone that's nicknamed the "bonding hormone" for its ability to bring couples closer together while also alleviating stress, reducing blood pressure, and promoting healing. And who couldn't use more of that.

BY BRENDAN TAPLEY 

Sep 7, 2018

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