Abusers are those who hurt people and find joy in doing it "ammysbigstories"
ABUSERS are so comfortable making people uncomfortable. They are deceptive, jealous,over protective and manipulating.
TYPES OF ABUSERS
They toil with your feelings and never care how you feel or what you are going through. They find every reason to make you feel unhappy and restless.
They hit you with their hands,objects,weapons just to make sure your are disfigured or have an injury.They hit you for just no cause and still make you feel you are the reason they are hitting you.
This type of people find pleasure in seeing you unhappy while they are happy having sex with you.They are also involved in raping and see no wrong in what they have done.
SIGNS OF ABUSERS(CHARACTERISTICS)
*They are over protective and jealous.
*They don't like sending time wit your family and doesn't want you to do same.
*They don't take responsiblities of their action.
*They don't respect your privacy.
*They have massive mood swing.
*They threaten and punish.
*They call in frequently and drops in unexpectedly.
*They isolate you from family,friends and resources.
*Use of force during sex.
*Cruel to kids.
*Demand sex even if you're asleep,tired,sick or not in the mood.
*Say things to upset or frighten you.
*Swear at you or call you names.
*Orders you around and treat you like a slave/servant.
*Makes big scenes about small issues.
*Threatens you with infidelity or divorce just to throw you off balance.
*Accuses you of lying or having bad memory.
Let's say no to all this and stand to fight for ourselves.
Let's put a STOP and do the right thing. Run away from those that have these signs, they are dangerous and can kill without any trace of them doing it.
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This is deep and very introspective! Abusers are not of a single gender but both! My stance on this is japa! Don't wait to see him/ her change ! You can do that from a distance 😉
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ReplyDeleteThis is very introspective too! Abusers are not of a single gender but both! My stance on this is JA PA! Don't wait for them to change o you can observe from a safe distance! 😉
ReplyDeleteHmmm.Deep and insightful.God will give us wisdom to know when to say no and say yes..well-done sis
ReplyDeleteNice one
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