Men often underestimate the emotional ramifications of their actions.
While women do cheat,the fact remain that men cheat more than women.But they don't seem to do so with the same intentions as women.Cheaters, specifically repeat cheaters tend to be opportunistic and capable of emotional threats.
WHY DO MEN CHEAT?
Some cheat becos they are not satisfied,but as a rule men don't cheat becos they are unhappy,men cheat becos they think they can get away with it and becos they're willing to let themselves get away with it.Cheating is a strange behaviour that can make it hard to be a good father an husband, but also a behaviour that isn't actually related with love or care.
Men think well I just did this but in every other way I'm retable, responsible, committed, a good guy...bla bla bla....
What they don't understand is that women don't think that way.Men who don't come clean or get caught,repeat offenses are the product of the same mentality."It just sex".
20% of men admit to cheating compared to 13% of women.10% of expecting fathers cheat o their pregnant wives,and their reasons to believe a man resistance to temptation is stronger when he's newly married and having bunch of sex if the partner interest is declining.
The good news is that most men don't need to cheat to understand the hurt it may cause yo their partner.
"Weiss.....recalls one man who came to him in a counselling session expressing the urge to cheat with a colleague, and he advised him to treat his marriage as a contract,if he wanted to have sex with another person.He'd need to discuss it with his wife first in order to negotiate terms.When he did,he saw yye pain it would cause her before doing it,rather than retroactively and he ne'er cheated.
A mature person keeps their partner in mind wherever they are so as to avoid cheating..
SOURCE:Laura Vinopal
Sep.21 2018
Copy right:Ammy'sbigstories
waoo, this is eye opener!!
ReplyDeleteA big eye opener.
ReplyDeleteGood write up👍
ReplyDeleteGood one here! I believe not cheating by men in relationship is a matter of self discipline and self worth! A man who has
ReplyDeleteself respect for him self won't cheat, cos cheating on your wife is cheating on yourself! You don't want to let yourself down😉